Codependency is a set of maladaptive and compulsive behaviors learned during childhood; developed to cope with great emotional pain and stress.

In relation to alcoholics, codependency creates a destructive environment that allows alcoholics and addicts to maintain self-destructive behaviors. In fact, very few alcoholics and drug addicts can maintain their addictions without someone or some people bailing them out on a regular basis.

What types of behaviors are considered codependent?

• Making excuses
• Deflecting attention
• Paying rent for someone else
• Minimizing inappropriate behavior
• Enabling (Giving addicts and alcoholics money)
• Bailing alcoholics and addicts out of jail
• Not setting appropriate boundaries
• Trying to control other people
• Finishing work
• Ignoring inappropriate behaviors